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Yule - Silver Chalice Wiccan 'Zine #54
December 01, 2016
Silver Chalice Wiccan 'Zine #54
The Earth Element
If you follow me in social media (Facebook, Twitter, G+, etc.) you may have seen a little post about a spider. I'd like to share the whole story with you here, because I'm still fascinated by what I experienced!
Not this spider, though. She just calmly disassembled any torn parts and rebuilt, as if it were the most peaceful and pleasant of pastimes.As our relationship (admittedly mostly/completely on my part) progressed, I was struck by a profound significance. Somehow, watching this small being was important to me.
I began to wonder why. Why did this feel so meaningful?My mind started to explore all I knew about the meaning of Spider, all the symbolisms involved. But I started to lose the moment in all the thinking. My friend Colombe tipped me to the fundamental issue: Being present with this creature, in this moment — that was what mattered. Perfect sense! I had to laugh. While I know that everything that happens is a message from the Divine in various forms, sometimes it's important to step outside of our self-involvement — thinking that we're the most important aspect of any situation — and simply be present with What Is. And especially, be present with others. My viewpoint changed. My focus turned to the relationship I had with this creature. Even though I can't know what her relationship with me is, if any, I could be the loving witness of her life. That brought a joy all its own!
I realised that just being present for another being -- witnessing, honouring, and loving -- is the greatest value of my interactions with her.
I also noticed that without my normal helping/rescuing mode engaged (I certainly couldn't tell her how to improve her web management!), I felt a lot more at peace, a lot more pleasure and intimacy with her than in many of my relationships.
This is what a spider taught me... or what I taught myself with her for an example. I hope to carry these new insights with me into other relationships, and all my interactions with the world. With Yule season upon us, the timing is perfect.
Have a lovely Yule, dear Wiccan! I'll see you at the next turn of the Wheel.
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Are religion and spirituality the same thing?Not really. Religion is a subset of spirituality. Just as Wicca is part of Paganism, and Anglicanism is part of Christianity, religion is contained within spirituality. Spirituality is direct communion, or the seeking of direct communion, with the Divine. Or more accurately, realising that you are already One with the Divine, indivisible and eternal. That is the entire purpose of spirituality. However, the purpose of religion is somewhat different...
What is the difference between religion and spirituality? Here's a handy chart, comparing religion to spirituality. Spirituality is... Continue...
Wicca Spirituality is Wicca, all grown up.
When Wicca started out as a religion, it incorporated spiritual and mystical elements. But it didn't fully develop them.
That may have been because the spiritual potential back then was more limited. Today, though, the potential in each human to fully access the realm of the Divine has skyrocketed...Continue...
The living ground beneath your feet! The carpet of grasses, and wildflowers’ sweet scent, clover and meadows.
Healing herbs and nourishing plants. ...
Winter is the season of the Earth Element, and it's associated with the Direction of North.
The Earth Element represents everything that has taken physical form.
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This may not be thrilling to others, but I’m totally stoked!
As you may know, I’ve been backlogged with computer and email problems, not to mention upgrades on the Wiccan course, so there hasn’t been time to devote to new site articles. But I DID manage something…
It used to be a confusion of dozens of testimonials, some really long. Now it’s simplified and tidy and with graphics! (I’m kinda graphics-challenged, more a text-heavy type. )
Someday I'll put a second page up with the rest of the testimonials, but for now, this is WAAAAY more fun to look at.
Sorry I don't have new articles up... when I learn to clone myself, though, hold on 'cs I've got TONS waiting to go up!
Here is a special Yule Prayer Song and Winter Solstice Ritual you can use. Totally free: you can download it to learn the song, or play it for your Yule rituals!
Just in time to tune up your voice and practice for Winter Solstice, you can get this ebook of Pagan holiday songs and yule carols.
Now when the songs come on the radio, you can sing along in celebration of the Pagan season!
Ex-JW., Ex-Christian, recently studied (not in depth) Noahide and Judaism. I am lost in my Non Spiritualism.I see so many conflicting teachings and of course all saying I am lost to any future life, if I don't believe their way. I'm old and tired and just giving up. So I'm not studying anything now. Take care, TJ
I wanted to reach out to you; your plight touches my heart! I understand how confusing and frustrating it is, all these different religions preaching contradictory things... and each swearing that theirs is the one and only truth.
I’d just like to offer you a bit of encouragement. And it is this:
Every religion has a piece of the Truth. If you look deep -- past the “don’t run with scissors” kinds of rules, which are different in each religion -- there are common threads in all.
Those threads are guides to the real Truth. If we could piece all of those — and only those — together, we’d come pretty close to a True religion. (As true as a 3-dimensional mortal mind can perceive, anyway.)
So it doesn’t truly matter which religion you want to follow.
No religion can claim sole ownership of something that is as far beyond them as an ocean is to a grain of sand.
Or follow no religion but Kindness (which is the Dalai Lama’s stated religion) or Love (which is Amma’s), or Peace, or Divine Light... that will lead you just as surely! That singing, that heart, that kindness, that love, that peace... that IS the essence of the Divine.
You can follow any one that sings to your heart. Overlook the shallow teachings, and follow the heart and soul of any religion, and you will find what you seek.
And it’s not your future life that will be lost; no worries on that score! Nothing can change the fact that you are eternal. It’s only your fulfilment and peace in the present that can be lost.
I’m sending angels for you, TJ. You can ask them for whatever you like; they’ll help you.
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My belief is that the truth is a truth until you organize it, and then becomes a lie. I don't think that Jesus was teaching Christianity, Jesus was teaching kindness, love, concern, and peace. What I tell people is don't be Christian, be Christ-like. Don't be Buddhist, be Buddha-like.
~ Wayne Dyer
Religion is orthodoxy, rules and historical scriptures maintained by people over long periods of time. Generally people are raised to obey the customs and practices of that religion without question. These are customs and expectations from outside the person, and do not fit my definition of spiritual.
~ Wayne Dyer
The ultimate and highest leave-taking is leaving God for God, leaving your notion of God for an experience of that which transcends all notions.
~ Meister Eckhart, Theologian
It would be a contradiction in terms to assume that the attainment of transcendent meaning consists in comprehending a notion... Our words do not describe it, our tools do not wield it. But sometimes it seems as if our very being were its description, its secret tool.
~ Abraham Joshua Heschel, Theologian
Ultimate meaning is not grasped in the form of a timeless idea, acquired once and for all, securely preserved in conviction. It is not simply given. It comes upon us as an intimation that comes and goes. What is left behind is a memory, and a commitment to that memory.
~ Abraham Joshua Heschel, Theologian
The soul has a private door into divine nature, where all things become nothing to her.
~ St. Augustine
I never knew how to worship until I knew how to love.
~ Henry Ward Beecher
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I found this website and have been a part of your emails for years! At least 4. But I'm sure it is more than that.
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I don't know why this took me the way it did but immediately brought tears to my eyes and bliss into my life.
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Thank you for sharing this with me!! It's hearing stories like this, that make it worthwhile to keep going! : )
What might not be seen is that what we're really fed up with, is our choices and our responses to things -- the automatic thoughts and beliefs and patterns that are getting triggered.
We want to change everyone around us, or our relationship to them, so they'll stop tripping our buttons, rather than changing ourselves so we don't HAVE the buttons.
(See more below on this topic.)
Well, there are always things to do. Surprisingly, perhaps, one of the best ways to start heaing the world is to love ourselves and have more compassion for ourselves. Being kind to ourselves changes things in the world more than we tend to believe is possible!
We also need to love our "shadow" side -- our pains, our fears, our traumas. Not in a way that feeds them and increases them, but breathing into them, creating space around them, and loving the part of our bodies that feels those things.
After all, we ARE the society. As we ARE the world. Change ourselves, and the society/world can't help but be changed, if only a little bit.
And if a lot of us are changing en masse, the world is changed significantly!
The Shadow coming up in daylight can be pretty scary! But that's a crucial first step! When it's hidden in the dark of the subconscious, we can ignore it... we may not even know it even exists! Once it comes to light, and we can identify it, we can take steps to deal with it more effectively.
The Shadow points the way to our healing! (Let's try to remember this, as it continues to terrify us. )
Not wanting to see the Shadow, not wanting to deal with it... this is another version of "hitting the wall." We think it's outside of ourselves, and we just want to kill it.
And here's what we need to remember about that...
The "wall" we're hitting is actually ourselves -- the limitations of how far we are willing to grow; the line where we have defined "this is who-I-am; this is how-I-am, and I shouldn't have to change."
We get stuck in our ideas of how life is supposed to be and what we want and don't want. And the world around us starts poking at that rigid line, encouraging us to get more flexible... and to look deeper. To let go of the restrictions we've created for ourselves. And to bring love to the situation, and the other people involved, as well as ourselves.
So mote it be!
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